Reference Mark Sing

I will attribute nearly all of this to the dating coach I found online I have referenced him above but I have found this podcasts extremely helpful in understanding what I have been doing wrong in my life, navigating the dating scene, building my social circles as well as my family relationships.

The dating scene is essentially social skills littered with a few other things but it is extremely biased towards building social circles being better relationship builders and generally having a healthy and vibrant social life.

Building a social life is like eating its healthier and more edible if you get to eat a wide variety of foods from a range of sources. Navigating the social scene is exactly like this you need to have a wide variety of social contacts and connections to choose from. Its healthier and more productive. It not only gives you a wider more interesting social circle but the chances of you becoming intimate with someone is greatly increased.

The journey therefore is to really be a professional networker a social butterfly. To go in that journey of talking to everyone you meet and learning how to build relationships and to forge meaningful connections with a wide variety of people – the wider the better. Perhaps this is why we are all drawn to the cities? Maybe this is a healthier way of living? Its also interesting to think about inter marriage fidelity and “cheating”. Its difficult to talk from a females perspective but as a male I understand that this is quite normal with male peers and the need to have a “bonafide” and then pursure other interests is quite a standard procedure and could quite often result in them having multiple other prospects at the same time. It could generally be seen as a healthy male someone who is in fact doing everything right and not wrong. It is normal for us males to pursue multiple female relationships at the same time.

This really leads me into learning how to play the field before i can really think about settling down as it will enable me to have a healthy amount of romantic interests and relationships.

I come from a background of a few short term relationships but nothing over a few years. I let relationships go over not experiencing the short term dating scene before which was a shame as they were very good relationships. However I do want to pursue this anyway as i feel it would work out better for me.

Moving onto the obviously simple plan

Step1: Find yourself a base somewhere you can make a permanent base for yourself a job and somewhere with access to a wide variety of people the better the situation you put yourself in the easier the results are going to be.

Step 2: When you have found somewhere suitable and you have stable income you will need to make sure you are suitable to really begin networking. Have be clean and have good hygiene and start hitting the gym to look after yourself. You may also need to get a couple of decent tattoos in the right places to help. The goal is to save money but also to invest in this area of your life so a little balance between saving and having what you need. This is the stage to start looking into languages.

step 3. get out there and build networks, communities people you can rely on. Pushing your boundaries into international fields and professional acquaintances from around the world. The art of dating will really revolve around how many relationships you can maintain and how many face to face interactions you can have

Step 4 its probably best to assume here that pursuing romantic relationships is on the cards, being open and honest about what exactly it is that you are looking for is probably the best policy telling someone you love her just because you want to get laid is probably not the best course of action. Its going to be hard but its going to mean either not talking about it and belaying the conversation entirely or politely explaining that you are dating more than one woman and have no intention of getting married or settling down. This may put off a number of suiters but it could save a lot of trouble later on down the line.

Step 5: lastly be sensible wear protection don’t initate with someone who has had a few too many, make sure you have the money to pay for there taxi home in the morning and buy them some breakfast, enjoy the memories and be happy you got to experience it.